So here is something that has been on my mind for some time now… relationships.
Not the pregnancy one I did awhile back, but just flat out relationships. Why is that now a days we rely on internet for finding someone, or even the fact that we have to publicly announce it. That when you are in a relationship, you have to go right on to Facebook or Myspace and quickly change your status. WHO cares?! Like seriously, is your life or your friends life so boring that you have to check up every 2 seconds?
I know I am also guilty of checking Facebook more than once a day, but I look at the stupid things people post, I ignore the ‘oh my life is crap,’ and the stuff about the relationship status. That is their own life, and if they want to share with you what happened then let them.
Now with that said, of course when you are dating someone or married, eventually change it of course, but don’t be the one who stops everything to go on there right when it happens to change it. Or don’t be the one that checks up on the other to make sure it is changed. That means sitting there the next day checking to make sure their BF or GF has changed their status. It isn’t an official thing meaning that because you change it means you ARE for SURE dating; it is just to show others when YOU change it.
The whole ‘Its Complicated thing’ isn’t a status, you are either dating or not; there is no in between. If you are fighting, ok; couples fight, it keeps relationships together when you work it out. If you cant work it out then it isn’t meant to be. If you are taking a ‘break’ then you are technically single cause one of you is bound to date someone else in that time.
There probably is a reason for ‘its complicated’ but so far not one that can be seen.
