The Definition of Sexuality... kinda

So I now present you with my first What Really Urcks me...
this one is relating to something that just recently happened about two days ago. I was on Grindr (for those who do not know of this, it is an app for iPhone, Blackberry and Droid phones where if you are a gay man, can find nearby gay men. You then can chat and meet as friends or date... but as with all things you give to gay men, it turns into a hook up deal...) and while I was on this app, a guy messaged me. There was no pic, there was no short profile, just his stats. He goes on to say that I am cute and if I have anymore pics
*Blink Blink* that's basically my reaction at first... I replied, 'yeah, sure... do you have any?'
he replys, 'no I am very discrete'
hmmmm... ok
So I send him one..
then he asks if I wanna meet.... hmmmm..... but didn't you just say you were discrete??!
I stopped talking right then when he asked that. This is what I do not get, If you are on a gay site or app, and you are just coming out or on the DL, why be there if you aren't going to give a pic. I mean you are gonna meet them at least let them know what you look like before they come over. And if you say 'well I do not want family or friends or even co-workers to find out.'
If you are gonna trust a guy to come over to do stuff I am sure you can trust with a pic.

Here is something along those lines also (two for one day of rants.. lol)... being Bi.
What does it mean?
Is it a straight mans attempt to be somewhat gay so that chicks will let them see them naked?
Or is it a mans attempt to have sex with one because the other won't give it to them?
What I say.. it is both.
I have dated a few Bi guys.. it is no fun. They always would check out other girls, or leave me for a girl or something like that.
You cannot be both, you are either gay or straight. Bi is more of a phase so to speak; like you do not know yet what you find attractive. It has happened to everyone whose is gay or straight. They either tried it with a girl and didn't like it or visa versa.
What really did it for me on why you can not be both, is one Bi guy I know (no names here) once said 'I don't want to date a guy, I want to date a girl, have the white picket fence, the family, I will have sex with a guy though.' That there is just the reason why. It is sex. It is disgusting. Being Bi is an accuse to get off without actually being gay. Wanna know something funny... most Bi guys are bottoms anyway.. HAHA!
But nowadays, being Bi is the thing to be. Girls say they are so that more guys look at them while they kiss another girl. Guys do it so that the girls will watch them ultimately leading to them all having a make out session together. Am I going overboard with this...? if you say yes... good I am doing what I meant to be... if no then also good... you either agree or I am not doing my job.
To end this.. I am basically saying that these days everything is sex... not in the good way either. But that is for another days rant.

Intro

So... I am starting this new blog to express myself in a little better place, and to also be able to write more. Now the opinions I post here are my own opinions, I don't take them from anyone else and if I put something from an article I will post the website with it.
Also, if you don't agree with what i have to say, then great, post a comment and tell me what you think. And if you do so, be sure to cite yourself.
I listen to people and their opinion, I am not one to disregard what others have to say, I may not agree but I will listen. So please do the same for others on here.
Just so you know, also, the word Urck may not be an actual word but it is for to describe angry or irritated.